Tuesday, March 27, 2012

About her

Read something over dawn's fb wall post and part of it goes like this.


It's about marriage.


I took out the para said to the man about their wife or future wife.


*with some amendment by taking out sentence that is religious.


To my boys:


She may be hard to please only if you don’t know “the secret”. What is that? I’m glad you asked. The secret to pleasing your wife is to make her feel safe and treasured. You may have to move out of your comfort zone to do this at times. She won’t always readily translate the oil change to love, though it means that. But let me give you a “secret question”–a question you need to ask her often. It’s not just in the asking, though. Be sure to focus your eyes on hers, maybe even touch her shoulder or face, and then ask: “What’s on your mind these days? “ And then be ready to listen. She wants you to draw her out. She will perceive this as your protection over the matters of her heart. Tenderness, listening, protection. That’s what she wants.


*Extracted*


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