Love, not Time

Love, not Time

Read from an email sent by mel early this year, and there is this line saying:

Its Love, not Time that heals all wounds.

Time does not heal any wounds.
When people said "I need time to be better. Im going to be better after sometime."
Its all lies !! Cos you cant be better & you wont be better. You will still be bothered by anything & everything. What is the best medicine for all these ?? Care & Concern. Love.

There are instances where a major quarrel just ended. How long will you take to forget the hurtful incident ?? How long will you take to mend your broken heart ??
It all depends on how much love you sense from the other party. How much care & concern u got from people surrounding u. When you feel pain from recalling certain incidents, your heart has not been mended.

When you harbor bitterness, your happiness will dock somewhere else.

I believe that, being sad or angry is an emotion you choose to experience.
Korkor once told me:"我命这么苦了，为什么还要吃苦瓜呢？"
Hahax !! So he chose not to eat bittergourd and make himself feels even worst.

So what have you choosen for yourself ??
Choose to be bothered by unhappy circumstances or did you choose to be less calculative and be happy ??

Hahax !! Personally i will be bothered by stuff. I cant prevent my heart from getting emotional at times. But i will definitely get over it pretty fast. Real fast. Sometimes i wish i couldnt brainwash myself that efficiently so that i can experience being real angry and start scolding everyone and screaming at anybody. =p *maybe i will do that when im drunk someday*

Ching said that one have to release emotions so that the volcano within wont erupt someday and cause worst circumstances. *Her explosion theory*Hahax =p
Mel said that one may suffer from dimentia and started hating ppl at her golden age if she doesnt release her emotions when she is young.

Hahax !! I know thats very bad of me to think that way. But after watching tv and looking at people shouting & screaming, i felt that mayb releasing of anger is kind of good.
Hahax !! Dont worry people !! Though i have had bad tempers when im young, but im no longer that way anymore. I simply cant shout and scream at my dearest one. *oppz !! I did raise my voice at home before & felt so guilty about it* Other than this incident, i dont think i have ever shouted and scolded anyone.

Anyway back to topic: I will choose not to harbor bitterness. I have to be optimistics so that people around me wont suffer. Sometimes being less calculative and to let it be, your friends will be happier & i would be happier too ^_^

我人生的道理“人家开心，我就开心”

Love.Muacks.

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